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bodger1946 (62) from Middlesex

About me

I am a quiet broadminded guy who just wants to get along with life and enjoy what time I have left. I am not a high roller, just an average guy coming to terms of living alone and coping on a pension.

I am a laid back individual enjoying my retirement. Now I have the time to develop my hobbies and watching documentaries on TV, going out visiting places of historic interest and photography.

I don't mind rummaging about at Boot sales or at a Country Show or a fairs or just motoring out into the country for a day out and I am an active DIY-er and I have a number of projects on the go at the present.

I have become a dab hand at video editing and i also maintain a website to tutor students taking the IELTS test.

I used to ride motorbikes for a living as a dispatch rider and I fly gliders for fun until I broke my leg in a fall from a low roof in 1989, it was only a 14 ft high roof but once it is broken it stays with you for always and i do now have mobility problems.

I became homeless after the breakup of my last relationship in July 2005 and it has taken me all this time to become re-established and find a place to live, so you once bitten - twice shy, but it would be OK to share visits esp if you live more than an hour away by car.

I have recently been diagnosed as having type 2 diabetes with most of the complications, worsening eyesight etc so I am following a strict regime of medication and self testing - the situation cannot be be reversed but some degree of normality might be maintained. How much this will impinge into my life remains to be seen. My confidence has taken a knock and i am doubt if I should continue my search or call it a day.

I like all the normal things in life but i am not one for being extravagant at someones else expense. I don't eat out or spend time at the pub - watch sports or gambol other than a £1 lucky dip on the Lottery.

I like to hold hands, see the setting sun, savour the smell of a pine forest and a walk on the beach; and the enjoy the glow from just being there with you like a re-cycled teenager and not having to speak.

I see this as being my last chance of finding love and achieving any degree of happiness in this world so you can understand that I want to get it right.

About you

I am looking for a none smoking, kind and caring woman who enjoys the simple things in life and who has a space in her heart for dumb animals - like me.
I accept that you are no longer a spring chicken but be assured that I am not looking for a former playboy bunny or a Pageant Queen as beauty comes from within.

Please understand that I am not looking for a "friend", a "companion" or a "house keeper" but a full time one on one relationship.

I am a breast man so you should feel good about yourself be broadminded and like to be pampered.

As I live near Heathrow Airport it would be ideal that you should live within reasonable traveling distance and if you drive would be an asset but not essential as i do have transport but i don't date indiscriminately and only after getting to know you better.

I also have a MSN / Yahoo ID if you would like to chat further. Message me for further details.

bodger1946 is 62 years old and lives in Middlesex. He is single with no children. He's 6' 0" tall and of average build. He's a non-smoker, who drinks occasionally. He is looking for dating and romance, friendship.

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