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Fake Profiles.....

Ive heard from someone who wont be mentioned concerning fake profiles.

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Good2BWith  Male  West Yorkshire 10-Oct-2019 10:53 Message #4757217
Witheflow Male North Yorkshire9-Oct-2019 21:58 new Message #4757144
Interesting responses and reactions. Hierophant especially, with a very defensive and insulting multiple responses. Nothermit straight into insults also. Very quick to abuse and attack as per usual. But Nigel in Devon surprises me the most.

Nigel demands facts of allegations of fake profiles. Yet actually jumped on the Fake profile bandwagon a few months ago, when the paranoid cartel members accused myself of having a Fake Profile.

You wouldn't expect someone trained in teaching, to run with the pack of abusers and then defend the abusers so eagerly.
Very interesting reaction Nigel and, very double standards.

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I AGREE with you, Witheflow - in general, and in particular of the strange utterings of N-i-D.
When Secondary Modern schools were in existence they were a draw for teachers and other staff with little talent but a great liking for the R Sgt Major and Lion tamer mode of "teaching".
With changes in legislation and the welcome introduction of Comprehensive schools, those "teachers" were thought to be extinct.
It seems that like the crocodile and coelacanth, such antediluvian manifestations DO still exist.
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Beach  Male  Dorset 10-Oct-2019 10:54 Message #4757218
Minnie wrote;

"Nasty backbiting sneaky gossip. It has always been the bane of this site. And if you happen to be unfortunate enough to be the one that they are all sniping about with imagined trumped up charges it can be horrible. For a bunch of so-called adults, you really ought to be ashamed of yourselves, it is pitiful."

I concur with Minnie.

It is frustrating. when there are so many worthy original posts on the forum currently, to witness so many members engaging with an O.P pursuing such a blatantly provocative and juvenile exercise in baiting others. It is as if some of you actually enjoy (or welcome) the emotions of feeling offended or being provoked into feeling angry or scornful ... and that makes (some of) you as guilty of purveying ill will and discourse as the person or persons some of you seem to enjoy persecuting.
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Good2BWith  Male  West Yorkshire 10-Oct-2019 11:01 Message #4757219
TrollPatrol Sex icon 10-Oct-2019 08:38
There is plenty of evidence on numerous threads as to the couple of trolls consistently insulting other members with no provocation and that is unacceptable. Nothing to do with their views or their politics but all about their rudeness and nastiness. They don’t need naming so it’s impossible to accuse the wrong posters. We all know who they are and many have blocked their vindictive texts.

Fake profiles are a separate issue and dishonest especially if used for dubious purposes of voting or agreeing with one’s own post. Once again some of these are well known by practically everyone on here. Others are only a suspicion so it would be wrong to make accusations. Personally I see no problem with discussing this privately if members so wish. Discussing fakes has gone on forever although often in the Men’s Room and perhaps the Women’s room too. The only one’s likely to be concerned at being “outed” are the culprits and their friends.

I would treat the fakes and the trolls and anyone who is particularly nasty the same way.
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Stage 1 = A Kangaroo Court
Stage 2 = Lynch Law.

Remember, even Robespierre came to a 'sticky' end.
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Good2BWith  Male  West Yorkshire 10-Oct-2019 11:36 Message #4757226
Beach Sex icon 10-Oct-2019 10:54
It is frustrating. when there are so many worthy original posts on the forum currently, to witness so many members engaging with an O.P pursuing such a blatantly provocative and juvenile exercise in baiting others. It is as if some of you actually enjoy (or welcome) the emotions of feeling offended or being provoked into feeling angry or scornful ... and that makes (some of) you as guilty of purveying ill will and discourse as the person or persons some of you seem to enjoy persecuting.
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Until you get off your self-designed and built fence - your words are little more than self-righteous cant.
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JustLyn  Female  Cheshire 10-Oct-2019 11:48 Message #4757229
So Micahelt makes a genuine conciliatory comment, and what does he get?

Oh michael give it a rest.
I don't know who you are, how long you have been a member of this site or what your agenda is, but since you have been posting your methods have been clear for all to see.

Agenda??
Methods??

You yank people's chains and stir things up, then act all hard done by when people call you out. Those of us who have been here a while have seen it a million times before.
Calling you out???

People can think what they like about me, maybe I shouldn't react or play along with you and your kind, but I will not make excuses for challenging your methods.
A waste of time and energy, sums you and your kind up very nicely...


Michaelt appears to have more kindness and compassion in his little finger.

Those who perceive to have their towels laid down on the sunbed around the hotel pool first must think they own the sunbed.
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MrQuiet  Male  Northamptonshire 10-Oct-2019 12:15 Message #4757233
Neros1954 Male Devon 9-Oct-2019 22:01 new Message #4757146
NoSaint Female Devon 9-Oct-2019 21:37 new Message #4757138
I would think that every one of us knows at least one false profile or fake photo on here but maybe a few are either very naive or playing the deaf dumb and blind kid because some are so easy to spot you couldn’t miss them if you tried. Over several weeks some become obvious whereas if you only log on occasionally you might not notice.



A few have been obvious. I think some are know but other members don’t like to say anything which is fair enough. Each to their own.


Fair post Neros. Each to their own.
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MrQuiet  Male  Northamptonshire 10-Oct-2019 12:16 Message #4757234
Neros1954 Male Devon 9-Oct-2019 22:05 new Message #4757150
I disagree. I believe Michael acted in good faith when exposing what he had been told. To name people is wrong in every way.


Another good and fair post.
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MrQuiet  Male  Northamptonshire 10-Oct-2019 12:17 Message #4757235
TrollPatrol Male North Yorkshire 9-Oct-2019 23:20 new Message #4757173
JustLyn. Smoke and mirrors indeed. You were wrong to name two men as trolls just because you felt others had been targeted who you felt were not the most offensive ... so presumably somewhat offensive.
I have only seen you defend Corbyn and trolls but I’m sure you are more fair minded than that.

Obvious is sometimes just obvious.


It is obvious. If you know something you can’t “unknow” it.
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MrQuiet  Male  Northamptonshire 10-Oct-2019 12:18 Message #4757236
TrollPatrol Male North Yorkshire 10-Oct-2019 08:38 new Message #4757196
There is plenty of evidence on numerous threads as to the couple of trolls consistently insulting other members with no provocation and that is unacceptable. Nothing to do with their views or their politics but all about their rudeness and nastiness. They don’t need naming so it’s impossible to accuse the wrong posters. We all know who they are and many have blocked their vindictive texts.

Fake profiles are a separate issue and dishonest especially if used for dubious purposes of voting or agreeing with one’s own post. Once again some of these are well known by practically everyone on here. Others are only a suspicion so it would be wrong to make accusations. Personally I see no problem with discussing this privately if members so wish. Discussing fakes has gone on forever although often in the Men’s Room and perhaps the Women’s room too. The only one’s likely to be concerned at being “outed” are the culprits and their friends.

I would treat the fakes and the trolls and anyone who is particularly nasty the same way.

BLOCK ‘EM DANNO!


Indeed.
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MrQuiet  Male  Northamptonshire 10-Oct-2019 12:35 Message #4757238
Michaelt appears to have more kindness and compassion in his little finger.

You are right JustLyn. I don’t agree with Michael’s views but he is an honest and honourable man. This makes me query your judgement in other quarters involving posters who are neither.
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Beach  Male  Dorset 10-Oct-2019 12:40 Message #4757239
In your bed, G2BW, there’s a good boy. :-)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVig27d8JFk
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Hierophant  Male  East Anglia 10-Oct-2019 14:19 Message #4757241
"You are right JustLyn. I don’t agree with Michael’s views but he is an honest and honourable man. This makes me query your judgement in other quarters involving posters who are neither. "

That's what happens when you lose track of who is who and who said what....
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Orson  Male  Tayside 10-Oct-2019 14:24 Message #4757242
Orson always finds fake profiles to be rather amusing occasionally if somewhat desperate in intention. Scurrilously employed quite often too, it appears.

One remembers, with selective delight, for example, the many alternate guises of the Bus Driver from Oxon.
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Michaelt  Male  Devon 10-Oct-2019 14:24 Message #4757243
Hierophant , You are not fit to describe anybody as honest and honourable. Such words are lost on you.

This what happens when you cry wolf one time too many.

Suck it up and spit it out.

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Michaelt  Male  Devon 10-Oct-2019 14:25 Message #4757244
MrQuiet, What views of mine dont you agree with. ?
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Hierophant  Male  East Anglia 10-Oct-2019 14:37 Message #4757246
"This what happens when you cry wolf one time too many.
Suck it up and spit it out."

What has happened exactly?
All I can see is you have stirred the shit up again, a few people have retorted and your little group (1 or 2 multi-profilers to be more accurate) of fans have been fawning all over you.
To coin a phrase, nothing has changed - it's just another typical day on MSE since you and your cohorts darkened it's doorstep...
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Good2BWith  Male  West Yorkshire 10-Oct-2019 15:17 Message #4757250
JustLyn Sex icon 10-Oct-2019 11:48
Those who perceive to have their towels laid down on the sunbed around the hotel pool first must think they own the sunbed.
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JustLyn
Matters are even worse than that -
"they" think that they not only own the sunbed

but that they own the SUN too.
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HotOrWot  Male  Lancashire 10-Oct-2019 15:28 Message #4757251
In your bed, G2BW, there’s a good boy. :-)

If only.
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JustLyn  Female  Cheshire 10-Oct-2019 17:37 Message #4757273
Mr Quiet,

"It is obvious. If you know something you can’t “unknow” it."

Ah...you have hit the nail on head, spot on, you "unknow" anything with an open mind and new evidence that makes any of us realise we got it wrong with the information we had at the time.

New information = new insight = new knowing
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JustLyn  Female  Cheshire 10-Oct-2019 17:40 Message #4757274
So comments like …

"That's what happens when you lose track of who is who and who said what.... "

Means the person is not complying with how that clique / cabal / in crowd / self - considered elite.... whatever

Mr Quiet,

careful, you are in danger of being neutral, you might bear the wrath if not careful.
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AQuietLife  Male  North Yorkshire 10-Oct-2019 17:43 Message #4757275
Being neutral on here is not a good place to be. I’ve seen a couple of very pleasant inoffensive posters vilified for just that.
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Nigel_In_Devon  Male  Devon 10-Oct-2019 18:32 Message #4757286
Lyn..."So Micahelt makes a genuine conciliatory comment, and what does he get?"

I can see several of Michael's posts on this thread but I can't see one that I would call conciliatory.
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Nigel_In_Devon  Male  Devon 10-Oct-2019 18:48 Message #4757297
Well, one band wagon I am jumping on is the blocking bandwagon. Two members now blocked, their attacks were just becoming too revolting!
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HotOrWot  Male  Lancashire 10-Oct-2019 18:49 Message #4757298
I can see several of Michael's posts on this thread but I can't see one that I would call conciliatory.

8m waiting to see the reply. Michael rarely does conciliatory.
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Beach  Male  Dorset 10-Oct-2019 18:54 Message #4757301
TrollPatrol opined;

"Being neutral on here is not a good place to be. I’ve seen a couple of very pleasant inoffensive posters vilified for just that."

I disagree.

Being ‘vilified’ via an online forum is not a novel phenomenon and neither is it reserved for the meek, the mild, the neutral or the inoffensive.

I feel that the important thing to remember is that this is the net; complete with it’s percentage of nutters, malcontents, basket cases and the like. Meaning; (that) just like rats, these people are always nearby, always with us ALL the time.

Nobody should feel they have to amend or adjust their online presence just to humour or satisfy the opinion of such pests.

I find their rants to be too one dimensional; always lacking any intellectual gravitas … there is never any depth to their arguments or their points of view. (A point of view usually embedded in the 1980s.)

The good news?

When the NHS is privatised, hopefully with American funding and expertise, such folk may finally get the mental health treatment they genuinely deserve.


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