Tips for Girls
Remember girls - it's cleavage OR legs, never both :-)
Remember the golden rule. Show your legs or your cleavage. Never both. Sex appeal owes more to mystery and the hint of expectation, that to acres of flesh spilling over and out.
Rather than dressing to disguise your body bits that you don’t like, dress to emphasise those that you do. You’ll always look sexier this way.
Think sex. Stop worrying about whether he’d be interested in the same movies as you or whether he’d get on with your friends. Just imagine what he’d be like in the sack. Your body language will soften and relax and you’ll become much sexier.
Use your make up wisely. Loading your eyes with masses of shadow, mascara and eyeliner and painting your lips red might make you look more like a pantomime dame than a sex siren. Keep your eye make up subtle, but enhance your eyes by lining them black kohl pencil. They will shine and seem much brighter. Use lip gloss too – men love it as it reminds them what else you might use your mouth for and also mimics the full, plump lips of an aroused vagina!
Wear high heels. Get used to wearing them around the house if you’re feel that you might just fall off them on a night out. They lengthen your legs, firm your calf muscles and make your bum stick out. And yes, men love rounded bums!
Think about your underwear. Even if no one is likely to see it, wearing matching, seductive underwear will make you feel sexier.
Learn to use your eyes to your best advantage. They are a seductive and powerful tool and combined with a sexy smile at just the right moment will leave your object of desire in no doubt as to what’s on your mind.
Relax about your body. Stand tall, hold your back straight and learn to walk in a sexy way. Touch your own body and feel the contours. Get intimate with yourself and enjoy. It shows that you know that you’ve got something to offer and he may just want a piece of it.
Tips for guys
Make eye contact and smile
Make sure that you are well groomed, with freshly washed hair and body and smooth just-shaved sweet smelling skin.
Wear clothes that you know that you look and feel good in.
Be a great listener. Concentrate, say the right things at the right time and ask us pertinent questions. Men who want to get to know us – as well as just ripping our clothes off – are always sexier.
Be selective. Once you’re chatting a woman up, concentrate only on her. No woman fancies a man who looks like they’d shag anyone who gave him the time of day.
Stand up straight and make eye contact. It shows confidence and that can be very sexy.
Be sincere and yourself and don’t take yourself too seriously. A touch of humorous self-deprecation is much sexier than being too serious or straight.
Be an arrogant arsehole. Nothing is less sexy than the full of himself, ‘come and get me, while I’m available’ type who struts about while working the room.
Be too quick to get from 0 – 60. Flirt, buy her a drink, make her feel good about herself but don’t actually tell her what you’d like to do to her the minute you’re alone or that she’s got great tits. Too much, too soon.
Use cheesy chat up lines.
Tell her jokes or chat about the missed penalty in that afternoon’s football match. She’s a beautiful woman you that want to bed, not one of your beer-swilling mates.
Wear your Union Jack pants. Or anything old or bought by your mother. If you do pull, we want to see some sexy jersey boxers, not a pair of old man’s yellowing frayed pants or novelty knickers.